I keep trying to let go, because by reality's standards, we will never be perfect, but I want to live this fantasy, because with you I feel perfected, and I like the beauty of someone like you, loving someone like me. Is it possible to forgive and forget? What lies in the past stays in the past, but moving forward does not mean the pain has stopped hurting, the wound being covered doesn't mean it has healed, and the scar will always remain to remind. Forgiving is possible but forgetting is out of ones grasp. You have no control of what seeps into your mind at unexpected times or the hurt that constrains your heart as it tries to beat. You can only control the way you react, whether you accept and understand, or analyze and assume. There will never be an exact explanation for another's behavior, never be an exact definition of the love that is shared, but consistently punishing one another defines spite and explains immaturity. An eye for an eye would leave everyone blind. Ask yourself if its possible to truely love unconditionally. If it is possible to love more than you love yourself, and you will see the answer is clear. To fall in love is to agree to change, not only habits and interests but outlooks and beliefs. Not necessarily changing who you are but who you are capable of becoming. They say not to compromise yourself, but isnt love compromise? Is not giving all of yourself to someone what makes love worthwhile? Real love is love you feel in your soul, the one that awakens passion to thrive and optimism to grow. Change is necessary and vital. Lasting relationships are ones in which a complimentary pair matures together and sponsors eachother's growth. I can not define love as anything other than a perfect fit, and although the pieces may not always fit together, you know that you are solving the right puzzle.
Song of the Day: Broken -Hearted Girl - Beyonce
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