Through the Mirror

(picture by yours truely =] )

Looking in a mirror and I see myself, my reflection and the evidence of my experiences. This month I have truely learned that love beauty and happiness come in the most unexpected of packages. :-) Life's sunsets are hard to deal with but sunrises come soon after, and remember, those are the times when its most beautiful. Through the mirror, I see where I was and what Im leaving behind. Through the mirror I persevered.

Stress free is the way to live, listen to what your mind is telling you and what your heart often fails to comprehend. Being treated how YOU want to be treated should be your ultimate goal, so surround yourself with people who have that respect for you. Raised like a princess, I expect to be treated like one, I dont know if thats a problem or the solution;; either way, I'm enjoying the equation.

Broken Rules

Some were just made to be broken.

Make him miss you sometimes when a man always know where you are and your always readily available to him- he takes u for granted.

Dating is fun even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE u a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.

You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage. deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is a two-way street.

Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating u as u deserve then heck no, u cant be friends. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Some to Remember. (He's Just Not that Into You)

A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves.

Beware of the word "friend". It can often be used by men or the women that love them to excuse the most unfriendly behavior.

He may be one of your closest friends, but I'm sorry to say ... as a boyfriend, he's just not that into you Rather than the the far greater expectation of a boyfriend Hes got the ultimate situation a great friend w/ all the benefits of a girlfriend

Wise words from a Decent man

If the one thing you cared about more than anything else in the world was threatened or even taken from you, if you knew that the people you cared for the most you had to disappoint and it was your fault... and this didn't spark some kind of emotional outbreak within you...then with no shame I'll say you are truly a stronger man than I. - Neyo

Neyo Breaks down in Manchester

Fake is another form of ugly.

The people who you surround yourself with are the people that mold your persona, your image, the way the world sees you. Thats why I don't believe in ugly. Ugly people inside or out have no place in my aura. I surround myself with success,loyalty, passion, motivation, beauty, and love. Those are the people who I associate with, those are the things I want in my life & I will not settle. I will not lose. I will not fail. So either you come along for the ride, or become a simple bystander of my climb to the top. Either way, I'll get there with all the baggage I come with. Because carrying it made me stronger and when I drop it from the top, the impact will be much greater. Understand my analogy, open your mind.

Aspirations

Friend: we have only one life to live and as much as it seems so much goes into play we forget that we create so much of it, if there's something that you want if you love it enough you'll get it
Friend: with me it's as if my dreams have been on repeat I need more from life I need to get myself out there, I need that happiness I feel that's my success
llshesadollll: I just got a mini blog post thought
llshesadollll: Here goes.. Ima freestyle on the IM lol
llshesadollll:
Seems so far away from you So far from your grasp you watch him live the life you created, and anxiety captures your spirit. You feel it at your finger tips in your heart the blueprint is perfectly mapped out in your mind. You see the man, he looks familiar. Now take a step back and study the facial features. That man you aspire to be is you.

... Friend:
I'm a word you heard and sometimes you listen to and at times you we're this sentence and I felt I fit in you. And we never talk we never say too much but I seen more in you. And I don't know your past and love never showed me your last,and I know I there was more to you then what I'm seeing in this glass and Im lost thinking maybe I'll never know you with all this time that past.

Surround yourself with people who share your same desire to succeed & failure wont come near.

Love is for those who accept it. I accepted it. It rejected me.

Heavy Hearted

Letting go is the hardest thing to do when you are in love, but what is there to hold on to, when your hand sways alone as you walk, & your ears have not experienced the sounds of delight, and your heart is being weighed down by negligence and insecurity? My dearest friend and my beautiful heart, see and accept what has been right before your eyes for so much time, because unrequited love is the love that helps the heart to grow stronger and fuller for someone else. But if you don't let go how can you carry the weight that rests upon your shoulders?

Song of the day: Time- Neyo

THAT Girl.

This will send chills ladies.